A different kind of Coaching

Most boys don't need someone to lecture them.

They need someone who will listen, challenge them, and believe in them.

At The Fourteen Project, we create a safe place where young men can ask hard questions, discover who they are, and build the confidence to become the man they were created to be.

What We Focus On 

🧭 Values

Discover what matters most and learn how your values shape every decision you make.

💪 Confidence

Build confidence through action, responsibility, and small daily victories.

❤️ Character

Learn integrity, resilience, accountability, and respect.

🎯 Purpose

Leave with a clear direction and practical goals for the future.

What Makes This Different?

This isn't therapy.

This isn't another lecture.

This isn't sitting in a classroom.

It's one-on-one mentorship built on trust, conversation, accountability, and real-life experience.

🧭 Compass

Find Your True North

The Compass is where every young man begins.

During these four weeks, he discovers his values, builds confidence, develops character, and creates a personal direction for his life.

Because before you can lead your life...
...you have to know where you're going.

Week One – Know Your Values

"If you don't know what you stand for, you'll fall for anything."

This week is about discovering the values that guide every decision, relationship, and goal.

What they'll learn:

  • Personal values assessment
  • The Compass Exercise
  • Making decisions with confidence
  • Identifying positive and negative influences

Week Two – Build Confidence

"Confidence isn't something you're born with. It's something you build."

Confidence comes from keeping promises to yourself and doing hard things.

What they'll learn:

  • Overcoming self-doubt
  • Positive self-talk
  • Healthy habits
  • Taking ownership of actions
  • Building daily discipline

Week Three – Develop Character

"Your reputation is what people think of you. Your character is who you are when no one is watching."

This week focuses on becoming the kind of young man others can trust.

What they'll learn:

  • Integrity
  • Respect
  • Accountability
  • Responsibility
  • Leadership through example

Week Four – Live with Purpose

"The direction you choose today shapes the man you'll become tomorrow."

Everything comes together into a personal action plan.

What they'll leave with:

  • Personal mission statement
  • 90-day goals
  • Vision for the future
  • Daily success habits
  • Confidence moving forward

🧭 True North

Live with Purpose.

8 Weeks

True North is where direction becomes action.

Young men learn leadership, relationships, discipline, resilience, communication, emotional intelligence, and purpose while building the habits they'll carry into adulthood.

Knowing your direction is one thing.
Living it every day is another.

Week One – Discover Your Values

Who am I?

Learn what matters most and build the foundation for every decision you'll make.

Week Two – Build Confidence

What do I believe about myself?

Replace self-doubt with confidence built through action, responsibility, and discipline.

Week Three – Strengthen Character

Who am I becoming?

Develop integrity, accountability, resilience, humility, and respect.

Week Four – Emotional Intelligence

How do I handle life's challenges?

Learn to understand emotions, communicate effectively, manage conflict, and respond instead of react.

Week Five – Relationships & Influence

Who am I surrounding myself with?

Explore healthy friendships, family relationships, social media, peer pressure, and choosing people who help you grow.

Week Six – Leadership & Service

How do I make others better?

Discover that leadership isn't about popularity—it's about serving, encouraging, and setting the example.

Week Seven – Purpose & Vision

What kind of man do I want to become?

Create a vision for your future by identifying strengths, passions, goals, and opportunities.

Week Eight – Living with Intention

What's my next step?

Develop a personal blueprint for the next year.

Each participant leaves with:

  • A personal mission statement
  • Core values
  • One-year goals
  • Daily habits
  • Accountability plan
  • A renewed sense of confidence and purpose